Monday, January 9, 2012

Avoid Tantrums

Life is a journey that can’t be turned back.   It is crucial that decisions do not bring dismay or regrets, so it can provide you with a stronger sense of intelligence.  Do not contemplate on the ‘what ifs’, or relinquish your beliefs for you will be the better for it.

You will find that there are individuals who will believe they are better than you because they have more money, more education, or even just good looking.  You will also find that there are some who follow these types of individuals so closely as if a shadow and will abide their every whim.  It won’t take long for them to be thrown to the wolves, when they have given everything they possibly could.  People are shallow and have no perceptive to life, as it is.

When everything was given to them, life was given to them without cause.  Besides the material stuff; they received their self esteem, self righteousness, self-confidence, calculating personality and their self worth.  They are the ones who are better than you, or they think they are.  These are the people who don’t have to worry about the next pay check, or if they will have a job next year, will their car last a year, what will happen if they fell ill?  Oh… to be as fortunate as not to have these worries.

I can’t believe that money, education and good looks, makes a better person.  A good person comes from within, your heart and your compassion.  You should look at every individual and believe that there must be a struggle within them, something that only they can reveal and only they can repair.  Treat people kind and with respect and you will receive it in return.  Don’t look down at the less fortunate or feel superior to others.

If it’s one lesson I learned about people who were fortunate to be given luxuries and not have to worry about their life, will be are missing one lesson in their journey of life, and do you know what that is, Life. 

Believe it or not the struggles that life throws at you makes you a better person, problems make you a more versatile person that will help you deal with anything that life throws at you.   It gives you that personality that makes you wiser than any rich kid on the block and in the long run it makes you the stronger one in Life; therefore, do not have tantrums, they may hurt the people around you.

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